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Mindset: 'You Can Set By Your Own!'

 The Brain Pathways     August 31, 2024     No comments   

Every evening, like clockwork, little Aarav and his grandpa would stroll to the park. It was their daily ritual, a time for fresh air, laughter, and a game of cricket with Aarav’s two best friends. But today, as they reached the park, Aarav’s face fell. His friends, Rohan and Viki, were nowhere to be seen.

Aarav with Grandpa

“Grandpa, where are Rohan and Viki? We were supposed to play cricket today!” Aarav's voice quivered with disappointment.

Grandpa noticed the sadness in Aarav's eyes and placed a comforting hand on his shoulder. “I’m not sure, little one. Maybe they couldn’t make it today. But look around—there’s so much more to do here. Why don’t you try playing on the swings or explore something new?”

“But it’s not the same,” Aarav mumbled, kicking at the ground.

Grandpa knelt down to look at Aarav at his level ,“I understand, but sometimes, when things don’t go as planned, we can still find joy in unexpected places. Why don’t you give the swings or the slide a try? You never know—you might have fun.”

Aarav was reluctant, but he trusted his grandpa. “Okay, Grandpa. I’ll try,” he said, though his voice was still a little sad.

He walked slowly over to the playground area. First, he climbed onto the swing, gently pushing himself back and forth. As he got higher, he began to feel a slight smile forming on his face. The cool evening breeze rustled through his hair, and the higher he swung, the lighter he felt. It wasn’t cricket, but it was still fun.

After a while, Aarav noticed some other children playing near the sandbox. They were laughing and sculpting shapes in the clay. Curiosity got the better of him, and he wandered over. He hesitated for a moment, then plunged his hands into the soft, cool clay. He started to mold a small tower, then a tiny car, and before he knew it, he was completely absorbed in creating his own little world.

Minutes turned into hours, and Aarav forgot all about being sad. He was too busy shaping animals and little houses out of the clay. He felt a joy he hadn’t expected, as if the clay was a new friend helping him discover a hidden talent.

Every so often, Aarav would glance over at his grandpa, who was sitting on a bench nearby, smiling as he watched his grandson play. Aarav ran over to him, his hands covered in clay.

“Grandpa! This is so much fun! I’m making a whole village with the clay!” he exclaimed, his face glowing with excitement. “Tomorrow, I’m going to tell Rohan and Viki to play with me here! We can all make things together!”

Grandpa chuckled softly and nodded. “That sounds like a wonderful idea, Aarav. I’m glad you found something new to enjoy.”

As Aarav played happily in the clay, Grandpa sat back on the bench, his eyes twinkling with satisfaction. Beside him, Antaru watched the scene unfold, clearly impressed.

“You really know how to turn things around for him,” Antaru said, nodding toward Aarav. “He was so upset just before sometime, but now look at him—he’s having a fun.”

Grandpa smiled, his expression thoughtful. “Life has taught me a few things over the years,” he began. “You see, I’ve learned from my past experiences that when things don’t go as planned, it’s not the situation that needs to change but our mindset. If you can shift your perspective, you can find happiness in places you didn’t expect.”

Antaru listened intently, the wheels turning in his mind. “I’ve been feeling pretty down lately,” he admitted. “My family’s out of town, and I’ve been coming here after work, just sitting around, feeling bored and lonely. I didn’t even think about doing something different.”

Grandpa nodded understandingly. “It’s easy to get stuck in a rut when we’re alone or when things aren’t how we want them to be. But if you look at it differently, you might see that this time alone is an opportunity rather than a burden.”

Antaru considered Grandpa’s words carefully. Suddenly, an idea began to form in his mind. He thought about the book that had been gathering dust on his shelf, waiting to be read. He remembered how much he enjoyed cooking but never had the time to experiment with new recipes. And then there was his love for music—something he rarely got to enjoy fully with his family around.

A smile slowly spread across Antaru’s face. “You know, I’ve been wasting this time, haven’t I? I could be at home reading that book, cooking something new, and blasting my favorite music as loud as I want. This could be a time to do all the things I’ve been putting off.”

Grandpa’s eyes twinkled with approval. “That sounds like a wonderful plan, Antaru. It’s amazing how a small shift in mindset can turn a situation around. Sometimes, life’s challenges are just opportunities in disguise.”

Antaru stood up, feeling a renewed sense of purpose. “Thank you, sir. I didn’t realize how much I needed to hear that. I’m going to head home and make the most of this time. I’ll cook, read, and enjoy myself—maybe even discover something new about what I love.”

Grandpa watched with a satisfied smile as Antaru walked away, his step lighter and his demeanor brighter than before. Antaru had found a way to turn his loneliness into an opportunity for joy, and Grandpa felt a deep sense of satisfaction knowing that his own life lessons had helped someone else.

Changing your mindset at the right time can turn problems into chances for happiness. It helps you find joy and new possibilities even in tough situations. By changing how you think, you can make the most of any situation and feel more fulfilled.

Happy Antaru cooking

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